No one knew there was a problem. Their home was a fashion statement in the neighborhood: the yard methodically manicured, the cars carefully cleaned, and the front door displaying a dazzling seasonal wreath. It’s no surprise that the kids were also noticeably impressive, both athletically and academically; their names were regularly mentioned in the newspaper. […]
Category: Pastors/Church Ministry
Being 4 One Another
Most pastors have demanding schedules. Most churches have more needs than people to help. Most people are hurting and need a place of healing and hope. I understand. I have a special-needs child, a blended family, and many other challenges most people will never know about. I bet you could be writing this too, discussing […]
The Simple Truth
Believe it or not, you have a decision to make. Regardless of today’s issues or the circumstances that leave you feeling trapped or without hope, you are still free. What is that freedom? It’s the freedom to choose your attitude and actions in the midst of your struggles. Several years ago, I had to come […]
10 Essentials of a Healing Church
When you encounter people who are going through a trial, do you find yourself thinking: I really want to help them, but what do they need most? As human beings, we all need the following qualities in our lives to help us through our toughest times. As we begin a new year, let’s remember to […]
Easy Ways to Help a Family in Need
When families are dealing with special needs, many of the basic chores of everyday life go from humdrum to hassle. As your friends, neighbors, and church members care for family members with special needs, take some time out of your week to offer a helping hand. One of the most treasured gifts is the gift […]
It’s Free!
It is the need of every human heart; a driving force compelling us to action, influencing our decisions, and intensifying our emotions. It is the universal longing for encouragement. We often think of encouragement as an act of kindness, which is part of inspiring others; but I see encouragement as a gift to be given. Our need […]
A Prayer for Strength
There is a book titled A Long Obedience in the Same Direction by author Eugene Peterson that puts into words the experiences of many who remain faithful to the Lord while their suffering continues without end. I have prayed the prayer below during such seasons and, today, this is my prayer for you. You may […]
There Is Growth in the Valley
The car was loaded with stuffed backpacks, sparkling water, and cell phone cameras. It was a crystal clear Southern California day, ideal for hiking. Apparently, it was the ladybug season; we found them everywhere—all of them were in our way, it seemed. Let’s just say the hike wasn’t perfect, but the mountain top was magically […]
You Have a Fan
Tom Malone, former president and COO of Milliken and Company, told a story about his life as a football player: I played football in college. I wasn’t very big—only 150 pounds—and I wasn’t very good. I got hurt a lot. I broke my arm once, my neck once, and my nose six times. When I […]
Weeds
Imagine. Someone just offered you one of four ways to spend your day. Your choices are: Spa Day: Receive a massage, a facial, a manicure, and a pedicure; get lathered with lotion and cloaked with warm towels while listening to quiet music all day long. Sports Day: Spend the day with close friends watching sports; […]
Mending Fences
What is it that defines property lines, provides security for kids, and gives privacy for parents? Fences, of course. The one in our backyard happens to be made of wood and, much of the time, is barely standing. It’s been slowly falling due to age, weather, and incessant pounding by our two dogs: Sherman, a […]
“Believe”: Sometimes Found in Stars over the Porch
My close friend just found out her son was sexually assaulted. In the last 10 years, her son has been diagnosed with the following: intellectual disability; developmental disorders; severe Tourette’s syndrome; learning, behavior, and life skill disorders; and the accompanying challenges related to anxiety and emotions. Believing in God’s goodness was tough for her. Adding […]